Behind the Clothes

You’re Invited (Even If You Don’t Come)

Early in my career, I used to tell my sales teams something simple: If you meet someone and tell them about a great party—the food, the place, the music—but forget to tell them they’re invited… you...

When Did I Become Invisible… and Why Does Part of Me Feel Relief?

I don’t know exactly when it happened. There wasn’t a single moment you could point to. Just one day, I realized… I move through the world differently now. And if I’m honest, part of me is relieved...

Does Self-Doubt Ever Really End?

At What Age Do We Stop Comparing Ourselves? When I was younger, I looked at older women and truly believed they had it all figured out. I thought the worrying had stopped. That the self-doubt was ...

For Every Woman Who’s Ever Felt Unseen

Have You Ever Had a Season When You Didn’t Feel Seen? When I opened cYou, many women assumed the name was a play on my own—because my name is spelled Cyndi.But the truth is, it came from a much dee...

Feeling Invisible? 9 Style Shifts Women Over 50 Swear By to Feel Seen Again

Feeling Invisible? ✨ 9 Style Shifts Women Over 50 Use to Feel Instantly Elevated The Truth No One Talks About My mom once told me, “As you age, you become invisible.” At the time, I brushed it off....

Holiday Traditions and Style Inspiration: Creating Days to Remember

When Holiday Traditions Change: Creating Days to Remember No one tells you how quiet the holidays become when your parents are gone and your children are grown. There’s a moment — and maybe you’re ...